" If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then HELL NO, you can’t “be friends” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

DON’T SETTLE. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat ON you.

You need time to heal between relationships; there is nothing cute about baggage. You should NEVER look for someone to complete you. A RELATIONSHIP CONSISTS OF TWO WHOLE INDIVIDUALS. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary. Make him miss you sometimes; when a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily available to him; he takes it for granted. DON’T fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything you need.

Self respect comes first. "